Beginnings are always the hardest. Accepting change always takes a little effort. But sometimes you just need a fresh start, a new approach to living your life.
Each and every one of us have had to face challenges. We’ve had relationship problems, health scares, financial stress, difficult bosses and what not. There’s no denying that life does get hard sometimes. But the difference lies in how each of us chooses to deal with our issues.
So what do you do when you’re feeling low? Do you choose to face a difficult situation head-on, tackle it and move forward or do you succumb to the pressure and give up?
No matter how you react, the real work begins with the next step…what do you do after the storm has passed? It may have left you devasted, but you have to pick up the pieces and again start building from scratch, coz the world stops for no one and life goes on…
This process will be easier if you summon some of your inner strength. Have faith in your will power. Look within you for the help you need. Believe you can. Take that first step. You too deserve happiness again. Don’t restrain yourself from doing the things you love in order to get out of a difficult situation or even for the usual reasons like to gain more money, more power, more success….
You can’t keep saying that you HAD to give up on your dreams in order to comply with your father’s wishes or you HAD to work long hours to be able to afford that bigger car for your family.
You can’t keep making these so called “Sacrifices” in the name of someone else’s happiness.
Your loved ones will be happy if you are happy. As they say, in order to donate something to others, you need to first have something with you that you can donate. What I mean by this is, if there is happiness and contentment in your own heart, only then will you be able to share it with others and spread some joy. If you don’t care about your own well-being, and you aren’t healthy and happy then the whole purpose of your hard work will be lost.
Go, search for that road of positivity within you and keep walking. The point here is that you ALWAYS have the power to choose your own path.
Being on the side of Positivity does seem harder at first but gradually you will start noticing subtle changes in yourself. CHOOSING to be happy is all it takes to actually attract happiness towards you.
Your positive attitude WILL help you do better in life.
So go, search for your own happiness first. That will be the first step in spreading joy to your loved ones.
A bad day can turn into good. Just look around you and find comfort in the little things in life – a baby’s smile, a delicious piece of cake, the company of old friends or even the chatter of birds…..
Take the reigns into your own hands, steer yourself in the direction of true happiness.
“Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day!”
(I can’t help using this cliche but it really does make sense!)
So go on, do something every day that makes you feel good, makes you smile. Be grateful at the end of each day that you have a reason to smile!
Find your “something good” for today.
I know starting on this path is the hardest, but if you decide that this is how you want to live your life then there’s no stopping you.
Your magical journey starts today.
Go live it…..